Trauma therapy and somatic healing in Colorado
Empathetic SUPPORT FOR Individuals Navigating the impact of Trauma on Relationships & Bodies
Struggling with how past painful experiences are impacting your current relationships?
Trauma and other past painful experiences, attachment wounding, and oppression can leave us feeling really alone and like nobody will ever understand us. We might also feel like our emotions are out of control or feel completely numb and detached. A partner or friend might express they feel we are “stonewalling” or “shutting them out.”
Some of us struggle to find words for what is happening inside of us in response to these experiences…
or can’t pinpoint exactly what about today's experience feels off or related to something in the past.
We might question ourselves and our experience, or dismiss our feelings and responses to particular situations as an overreaction or not valid. Maybe we feel like we are on autopilot, wishing we could be more engaged, but finding ourselves unable to connect more fully to ourselves and our loved ones. We may have a difficult time relaxing, especially when we are out in the world, almost like we have to brace our bodies against the next possible impact or be on alert in preparation to run. We might feel broken, unworthy, or unloveable. Sometimes it feels like nothing will ever change or get better. We might be exhausted, so tired the world demands so much resilience.
You aren’t broken and in need of being ‘fixed.’
You might be wounded and in need of being attended to, and that’s what you are doing here now. What we can do together.
These experiences you are having that have resulted in you feeling broken are actually normal and evolutionarily wired responses to trauma and harm. You aren’t what is wrong. A world that causes people to have to live in a place of trauma response is what is unhealthy.
I’m not here to tell you everything is okay. Everything is not okay.
No amount of my training and experience will undo the things that have happened. And also, this does not mean you’re stuck where you are and nothing in your life will ever change. I believe there’s hope and that healing is possible. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t be doing this work. The worst parts of these experiences have already happened and you have made it through them; I believe you have the strength and capacity to find your way through this hard part now. With guidance and support, you can engage in some of the deeper and more difficult trauma work to move forward in your life with more authenticity and fulfillment.
I’m here to partner with you in all of it.
You’ll find a space to process, be met in relationship and heal from these experiences in our work together. Trauma typically occurs in relationships (in relation to others), which can further impact how we show up in our relationships today, even when the trauma happened long ago. Healing together in relationship can be incredibly powerful and is often a necessary part of our work. The therapeutic relationship can be a safer and more stable option to begin that healing as you learn the skills and tools you need to find your voice, set your boundaries, and honor your joy in relationships outside the therapy session.
Throughout sessions, I will support you as you learn to identify and manage difficult emotions or uncomfortable physical sensations as they arise. Additionally, I help you work toward creating and/or nourishing your relationship with your body, learning to listen to the wisdom of your body in your day-to-day life. I’ll also help you learn skills and tools needed to address some of the symptoms common with trauma.
Meet Parker Schneider, LPC | Trauma therapist Colorado
Hello! I feel honored you’re considering working with me for Colorado trauma therapy.
I bring a wealth of experience in supporting individuals in their healing of trauma and ptsd. This work has also included navigating family-of-origin concerns, attachment wounding, and the impacts of oppression.
I specialize in community and identity-specific support for LGBTQ individuals and others with marginalized identities or experiences.
My practice is grounded in relational, body-centered, feminist, intersectional, and liberatory principles. My approach to trauma therapy is collaborative, incorporating diverse therapeutic methods to best support my clients.
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Licensed Professional Counselor (CO LPC. 0016271)
Masters (MA) in Clinical Mental Health Counseling & Ecotherapy
Completed Supervised Clinical Experience in Trauma Counseling At The Blue Bench in Denver, a non-profit serving survivors of sexual violence
Areas of Expertise: Trauma and ptsd, LGBTQIA+ affirming care, Anti-Oppression Framework
Training & Experience in: Ecotherapy, Hakomi, EMDR Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Mindfulness-based Counseling, Experiential Therapies, Attachment Theory, Polyvagal Theory, DBT
Trauma therapy can support you in:
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Learning how to let people love you; let those people who have earned your vulnerability and softness experience those tender parts of you.
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Nurturing a relationship with your body that allows you to honor your own boundaries and share what you want with your partner on your own terms. This shouldn’t be a “have to,” but instead a “get to.”
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Connecting into the relationship between you and you in such a way that better allows you to invite others into your world.
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Feeling seen and understood in the therapeutic relationship in such a way that you learn more about how to create that in your relationships in your life.
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Being able to wake up and take more control over your own life. You can’t change what has already happened, but you can heal in such a way that you get to choose where you go from here.
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Increasing your capacity to choose in life, especially meaningful choice. Your ways of surviving have been wise, and now you can choose other ways of being too.
I’m here to help you on your healing journey
Let’s get started in our work together toward fostering your happier life of more meaningful choice through trauma healing.
FAQs about working with a trauma psychotherapist in Colorado
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A psychotherapist is a licensed professional who provides general counseling and support for various emotional, psychological, and behavioral issues. All counselors complete substantial training that includes undergraduate education and a minimum of two years of graduate training with supervised clinical training.
A licensed professional counselor help clients with a broad range of mental health disorders and concerns such as anxiety, depression, relationship problems, and stress management using various therapeutic techniques.
Although all therapists complete extensive training, typical clinical social work or counselor education and supervision prepare providers to be generalists, often utilizing talk therapy or cognitive behavioral therapy as their primary approaches.
Typically, ptsd therapists pursue specialized training beyond the general counselor education. A licensed professional counselor who specializes in treating individuals who have experienced trauma usually has more specialized education, training, and supervised experience from other experts in trauma therapy.
Trauma counselors specialize in treating individuals who have experienced significant trauma, such as abuse, violence, military combat, car accidents, or natural disasters. Trauma therapists are skilled in creating a safe and supportive environment, understanding the complex impacts of trauma on the brain and body, and helping clients process and heal from their traumatic experiences.
What makes a counselor a trauma specialist is their specialized training and expertise in trauma-specific therapies and interventions. Some of these therapies are Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR therapy), Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Somatic Experiencing.
In addition to training in specific therapies and interventions, Colorado trauma specialists often have supervised clinical practice in trauma and ptsd. That means senior experts in the field of traumatology and ptsd treatment have provided direct guidance and training for the newer specialist’s initial cases.
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The role of a psychotherapist in trauma counseling is multifaceted. Licensed counselors focus on providing support, guidance, and intervention to help clients address and manage their behavioral health concerns. They provide specialized forms of therapy for trauma and ptsd that focus on understanding the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual impacts of traumas on a person.
Ultimately, the goal of a trauma therapist is to support clients in their journey towards healing, helping them to reclaim their lives and move forward with a greater sense of empowerment and well-being. Trauma therapists help individuals regain a sense of safety and stability after experiencing significant traumas.
During the counseling process, a trauma therapist will help most clients identify and understand triggers and ptsd symptoms, such as flashbacks, anxiety, and dissociation. They teach coping skills and strategies to manage these ptsd symptoms and work on building resilience and emotional regulation skills. Therapists also help survivors identify and build upon resources and strengths already present in their lives.
Trauma frequently affects many areas of life. Consequently, in trauma therapy, you can expect your Colorado trauma therapist to address related issues or concerns such as self-esteem, relationship issues, substance abuse, eating disorders, adhd, daily functioning, sense of meaning, sexuality, worldview, and identity.
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In trauma treatment, it's important to prioritize creating a safe and supportive environment where clients can show up authentically. Many specialists in trauma and ptsd utilize Dr. Judith Herman’s stages of trauma recovery.
The first stage is Safety and Stabilization, where the trauma and ptsd therapists help clients establish a sense of safety in their environment and within themselves. This involves creating a supportive therapeutic relationship, addressing immediate needs, and developing coping skills to manage panic attacks, negative memories, distressing emotions or phsycial sensations, and more. Developing safety is crucial for establishing trust and allowing clients to open up about their pain and past trauma.
The second stage is Remembrance and Mourning, where the therapist guides the client in processing and grieving the traumatic experiences. This stage often involves the careful exploration of traumatic memories, allowing clients to express and work through their emotions in a controlled and therapeutic manner. Many Clients benefit from engaging in this processing and exploration somatically, through play, or via creative and expressive arts rather than through narrative therapy.
The final stage is Reconnection and Integration, where the focus shifts to helping the client rebuild their life and healthy relationships. The therapist supports the client in finding new meaning and purpose, enhancing their sense of self, and fostering a reconnection with others and the world around them.
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Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD or complex PTSD) are both conditions resulting from trauma, but they differ in the nature of the trauma and the resulting symptoms.
PTSD typically arises from a single, discrete traumatic event such as a natural disaster, serious accident, terrorist act, war/combat, sexual violence or other violent personal assault. The core symptoms of PTSD include re-experiencing the traumatic event through flashbacks or nightmares, avoiding reminders of the trauma, experiencing hyperarousal such as heightened anxiety or an exaggerated startle response, and enduring negative changes in thoughts and mood.
CPTSD, on the other hand, develops from prolonged, repeated trauma, often occurring in childhood or in situations where escape is difficult or impossible, such as ongoing domestic violence or intimate partner abuse, childhood abuse and neglect, or captivity. While it includes the core characteristics of PTSD, Complex PTSD also encompasses additional traits related to prolonged trauma exposure. These additional symptoms include difficulties with emotional regulation, dissociation, negative self-perception, challenges in relationships, and persistent feelings of helplessness, shame, and guilt.
The key differences between PTSD and Complex PTSD lie in the complexity and duration of the trauma and the broader range of symptomology in Complex PTSD. While PTSD can result from a single traumatic incident, Complex PTSD is usually the result of chronic trauma over months or years. This prolonged exposure leads to more pervasive impacts on an individual's emotional and psychological functioning.
In essence, PTSD refers to the trauma response to a single or short-term event, whereas Complex PTSD accounts for the deeper, more pervasive effects of long-term trauma, affecting an individual's ability to regulate emotions, maintain relationships, and develop a healthy sense of self. Treatment for Complex PTSD often requires a more comprehensive, multifaceted approach due to the extensive and complex nature of the symptoms and their impacts.
It is also important to note that the US healthcare system does not currently recognize CPTSD as a valid diagnosis within the Diagnostic & Statistical Manual (DSM) of the American Psychiatric Association (APA) despite recognition by the International Classification of Diseases (ICD) of the World Health Organization (WHO). Although the current DSM does not recognize CPTSD, competent trauma specialists understand how very different the impacts of chronic and complex trauma are compared to single-incidence or acute traumas.
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At the end of the day, the best trauma therapy varies from one person to another. And the most important factor in whether a particular modality will be helpful is the relationship between a therapist and client.
However, there are some evidence based practices or modalities that are more effective as trauma and ptsd therapy. Trauma survivors often find somatic approaches such as Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Hakomi Mindful Somatic Therapy, and Somatic Experiencing effective in their healing process. Additionally, modalities such as Eye-Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR Therapy), Brain Spotting, and Neurofeedback have also been very effective for treating trauma. Parts work modalities such as IFS are also effective in trauma counseling.
These therapies, often tailored to an individual's needs in individual therapy, are most effective when provided in a safe and supportive therapeutic environment, fostering recovery and resilience.
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Some events or experiences we often identify as likely or potentially traumatic are surviving natural disasters, industrial accidents, car accidents, sexual assault or sexual abuse, robbery, violent crimes, medical emergencies and chronic illness, physical abuse, war or terrorism, and sudden death of a loved one. Emotional abuse, childhood neglect, and oppression can also result in trauma and ptsd.
Ultimately, what qualifies as a traumatic experience varies from one person to another. What one person considers traumatic experiences might not be perceived the same by another and vice versa. Personal history, support systems, and individual psychological makeup play crucial roles in determining the impact of potentially traumatic experiences.
Many experts in the field of traumatology and ptsd treatment, such as Dr. Arielle Schwartz, define traumatic experiences simply as “too much, too fast, too soon.” I often tell new clients that trauma can be anything that “overwhelms your nervous system enough that a survival response is activated.” Such events can threaten an individual’s physical or emotional well-being and can leave lasting effects when left untreated.
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This question is another version of the previous FAQ; just like “was my experience bad enough to be a traumatic event” and “is it trauma or am I overreacting?”
Even when new clients don’t say “I feel like my trauma isn’t valid,” other things they explicitly say or do communicate their internal struggle with internalized gaslighting and denial. Which, in and of itself, can be an indicator of past trauma.
As I mentioned above, anything that overwhelms your nervous system enough that a survival response results can be traumatic. Anything that is “too much, too fast, or too soon."
Your life experiences do not have to be the worst thing you can imagine for you to have permission to say you've experienced trauma. It doesn’t have to be the worst to be bad enough. It’s bad enough to be upset about and it’s bad enough for you to deserve trauma counseling or ptsd treatment.
Colorado Trauma Therapy for…
Developmental and complex trauma (CPTSD)
Adult survivors of Sexual Assault and Sexual Abuse
Intimate Partner Abuse and Domestic Violence
Hate-motivated violence
Institutional, Systemic, Interpersonal, and Internalized Oppression
Adult survivors of child abuse and neglect
Attachment wounding and insecure attachments
Intergenerational Trauma
Religious trauma or harm
Shifting from Codependency to Interdependency
Find Relief from trauma and ptsd through Colorado Trauma Counseling
Feeling stuck or feeling anxious? Perhaps you feel numb or are trying to get back control in your daily life. Maybe you are looking for a safe space to begin ptsd treatment.
Find relief from trauma related issues, painful life experiences, and unresolved childhood trauma. A licensed professional counselor can help you with trauma and ptsd.
Reach out to inquire about trauma counseling now.